A friend mentioned this article on how different people approach giving. It made us realize that we have been “split personality” givers over the years. Sometimes Cindy and I give because we know in our hearts it is the right cause, the right group and the right time. Other times we want to see change so we carefully think about the right change agent and who will be the best steward with our gifts. So we can’t say what approach is right. We like them both. We do know that giving back and being a part of change that improves our communities is something we all need to do. And whether we do it from the head or the heart . . . is a personal choice.